What happens after the "honeymoon"/lust stage in a relationship?

My challenge to you would be to try relationships the other way around. No sex for the 1st 3 months and if you're still interested after taking the time to learn about him - then great. Divorce is hideous and painful and it goes on and on like a bad migraine that never goes away. I once did meet a guy where I think all we had in common was fireworks - but you know - fireworks don't last long and then it's over and the rest of the night is dark. Plus, you don't play around with fireworks because you could get seriously injured OK? Anyway, I did also try it the other way around and I found the love of a lifetime that way.